and so it begin's.... well sort of

I really feel like I don't have a CLUE what I am doing in the "dating" world! This blog is my personal experiences of re-entering this scary world. At least my attempt at it!

So who am I?

I am re-discovering myself at the moment! but what I do know is this

I am almost 38 presently
was married for over 15 years with him for 21 years thereabouts and have been single for 16 months and counting, while my ex husband lives with a widow and her gaggle of children
I am putting my nose to the grindstone to support my 4 daughters and myself
it's a crazy time
drama is drawn to me or I am drawn to it I have yet to decide :)

I am not ready for a relationship at this point in any way and I tried dating awhile ago but lets face it only 10 months after the ex left isn't long enough and that was a disaster....more on that later :) but I thought it would be fun to "share" my findings and experiences as I brave this whole new world!

The context of this blog is meant to be light...totally fluffy and totally for fun... if I cause offense in any way... I don't really care :) you miss the point and feel free to delete from your list of favorites and move on :)

I hope when you read this you are able to put your feet up drink your martini and have a little laugh and even perhaps live vicariously through me!

cheers!