the rules

I know you are waiting to hear more on my date.... what am I willing to put out there though!?! haha well I can say that we plan to do go out again asap or as soon as my schedule will allow and that is not very often! He told me he is just a call away and will be willing to go out with me whenever I can fit him in. Some may say that is too easy and he should play a little hard to get but I also told him that I want upfront and honest! total straight shooter! and I am doing the same! NOT looking for a relationship, just a little fun and not much more at this point. I have a full life and I am content. By the way I think that "line" is a real conversational starter in my little experience and from what I can tell... the guys like it! who knew?!

I am not sure what the rules are for a woman who is closing in on 38 has 4 daughters works 6-7 days a week and has a fair bit of drama still with the ex?!

yup I fall into a WHOLE other category I bet if you google that you will just find links to me!

so what are the rules?

I think they are the following:

1 - totally wear the best high heels ... makes short legs look longer and most importantly .. skinnier
2 - try not to talk about crazy drama with ex bad bad bad idea although hard to avoid since crazy drama consumes way too much of your little energy
3 - don't eat something that will get stuck in your teeth but that's just good common sense
4 - ask lots of good questions and listen and get them to talk about themselves, helps to avoid breaking rule #2
5 - don't wear underwear that gets stuck up your butt... really uncomfortable and it will occupy your thoughts hence making rule #4 challenging
6 - don't get drunk ... ok oops this may be a hard one to avoid as nerves take over and so to avoid sitting there silently looking stupid the hand reaches for the glass stem and goes to mouth way too quickly making gentleman feel obligated to buy you another, if gentleman does not offer to buy you another drink he may be cheap and that is a sign to RUN, leaving no other option then to stop at liquor store on the way home from date and drink in bed and watch Pride and Prejudice! I know I am giving away all my trade secrets here but hey that's what I do!

I will not admit to breaking any of my listed rules :)

my rule - go out there have fun and learn how to talk to guys without feeling like a dork and without showing embarrassing baby pictures of your kids, be up front and honest, be myself, and probably the most important right now - learn to read the red flags!!! apparently they are very important and help you to avoid rebound guy!