so many frogs so little time

So it's been awhile... not much time to kiss frogs with my schedule :) but I have had my fair share of nasty frogs!! so here is a little update

my Bahama Babe turned out to be QUITE the frog as my instinct that was telling me there was more to the story was correct....waaaaaay more to the story and when I started feeling like a ``secret`` and after only 2 weeks he professed his love....well I was OUT to say the least!

While I wasn`t looking for anything serious being made to feel like a secret is probably an indication that his single status was not so single! too bad cuz the eye candy was fantastic but not worth the trouble and I am NO man`s secret and all that that entails. No thank you.... NEXT frog please!!

This all led me to the decision that on-line was an option as I seemed to hit a streak of old men that didn`t want to take no for an answer and my limited choice of frogs in my territory was looking a little smaller!

At least I can `screen` them a little in the safety of my bedroom :) and am I GLAD to screen them!! apparently men over the age of 45 cannot read and feel so compelled to send me emails, winks, and smiles even though my age range was 32-45! 59 seems to be the magical age of men that I attract! yeesh and talk about aggressive! one man when I politely sent him a reply to his many emails that I was flattered for the compliment but I did not think we would be a great match then was bombarded with emails trying to argue with me that he was in better shape then most men half his age and ... get this ... in fact he just had his prostrate examined and was deemed in the most excellent health.... I puked in my mouth a little and then replied `` you are the same age as my father who I have a great relationship with and not looking for another dad`` .... sometimes being polite doesn`t pay! he sent me quite a few more emails all of which I ignored!! I also had a 23 year old send me a picture of his private part displayed in a proud manner.... again I puked and have a hard time understanding why men think it`s so attractive cuz really..... not so much!  a whole slew emailed me from all over the states and some even from other countries... cuz really a long distance relationship is exactly what I said I wanted... uh hem yes it has been interesting

but

there were 2 that emailed me from my area... in my age range.... and were polite and not gross and inappropriate... I met both for coffee.... 1 for 5 hours... 1 for 2 hours.... it didn`t take me long to know that only 1 really had my attention and so I have been out with him 3 times this past week! he is a total gentleman...opens doors, pays the bills... and hasn`t said 1 thing to make me feel objectified and really ... thats a nice change :)

I feel comfortable with him. We seem to have endless things to talk about and the talking comes easy. I can talk to him about things like my faith that I haven`t done in .... what seems like forever... it`s nice....very nice.... have to say that so far he is renewing my hope that not all men are frogs!